In traditional Chinese culture, posthumous arrangements have always been an important matter that every family cannot ignore. Especially the elderly, they tend to pay more attention to their own funeral arrangements. The most important part is the selection and purchase of a cemetery. Choosing a suitable cemetery is a kind of respect for the end of life.
In China, many elderly people consider Feng Shui factors when choosing a cemetery. They believe that a cemetery with good Feng Shui can bring good luck to their descendants and also allow the deceased to rest in peace. Feng Shui believes that the shape of the mountains, the direction of the water flow, and the harmony of the surrounding environment will all affect the Feng Shui of the cemetery. A good cemetery should be backed by mountains and face open water. This layout is called "backing the mountain and facing the water", which symbolizes stability and prosperity. In addition, the location of the cemetery, the height of the terrain, and the growth of surrounding vegetation are all details that need to be considered in Feng Shui. Therefore, when purchasing a cemetery, elderly people often consult Feng Shui masters, hoping to choose a good place that will not only provide peace of mind for themselves, but also benefit future generations.
The environment is not only related to Feng Shui, but also to the daily maintenance of the cemetery and the convenience of worship. Elderly people hope that the environment where the cemetery is located will be quiet, clean and away from the hustle and bustle, so that their loved ones can remember the deceased here. At the same time, convenient transportation is also one of the considerations, making it easier for family members to visit tombs during important festivals such as Tomb Sweeping Day. In addition, some elderly people will also consider the management and maintenance of the cemetery, which will not only make it more convenient for family members to worship, but also reduce the difficulty of future maintenance.
With the development of society and changes in concepts, some elderly people may also choose ecological burial or tree burial. This method not only reflects respect for nature, but also reflects innovation in traditional funeral forms. Ecological burial usually refers to scattering ashes in a specific natural environment or burying them in a biodegradable urn, allowing the deceased to integrate with nature. Tree burial involves placing ashes in the space where trees grow, allowing life to continue to exist in another form.
Purchasing a cemetery for the elderly is a complex and thoughtful process that involves many considerations. These considerations not only reflect the elderly's respect for the end of life, but also reflect their deep concern for the future of their family. In this process, the old man hopes to choose the best place of blessing for his family and at the same time draw a perfect end to his life.